When my son Dan remarried after losing his wife, I hoped his new wife, Laurel, would be kind to his daughter, Mary.
Instead, Laurel’s politeness was only for show—privately belittling Mary’s clothes, schoolwork, and even her late mother.
I stayed quiet until Laurel humiliated Mary at her 40th birthday, mocking the handwoven shawl Mary had saved for weeks to buy.
That was my breaking point. I stood up, announced I had a “special gift,” and handed Laurel an envelope—plane tickets to Hawaii. But I told the
room they were for me and Mary, explaining I wouldn’t stay silent while my granddaughter was bullied. We left, hand in hand, past stunned guests.
In Hawaii, Mary’s confidence returned amid laughter and beach walks. Dan later admitted he’d sensed the tension but avoided confronting it. I told him Mary
is his daughter first, and she must feel safe and loved. He promised to protect her, and Laurel’s behavior has since improved—though I remain watchful.
I haven’t taken legal steps yet, but I’m ready if needed. My granddaughter deserves respect,
and I’ll make sure she gets it. Love, I’ve learned, sometimes means speaking up so everyone hears.
