For thirty years, I believed I was adopted—unwanted by the people who brought me into the world.
But a visit to the orphanage changed everything. When I was three, my dad told me I was adopted. He said my “real” parents loved me but couldn’t keep me, and he and Mom had stepped in to give me a better life. Six months later, my mom died in a car crash, and it was just me and him.
As I grew, his words turned colder. When I made mistakes, he’d blame my “real parents.” At a neighborhood barbecue, he even announced my adoption like a badge of honor. Kids at school teased me. On my birthdays, he’d take me to an orphanage—not out of care, but as a lesson. “See how lucky you are?” he’d say.
By sixteen, I asked to see my adoption papers. He handed me one page—something felt off, but I stayed quiet. Years later, my partner Matt encouraged me to look deeper. So we visited the orphanage. But they had no record of me. Confused and shaken, we went to confront my dad. That’s when the truth unraveled. “You weren’t adopted,” he admitted. “You’re your mother’s child—but not mine.
She had an affair. I couldn’t look at you without remembering that. So I made up the story.” He’d faked everything—the papers, the orphanage trips, the narrative of abandonment. It wasn’t about me. It was about his pain. “I was just a kid,” I told him. “I didn’t deserve this.” He apologized, but I couldn’t stay. I left with Matt, determined to build a life where I finally felt whole—on my own terms.
